There is more than way to divorce.
As there are different relationships, so too are there different divorces. You can choose which type
of divorce you would like to have. If the divorce process is turning out pretty bad, sometimes it can
be easy to blame the other party, but think of the saying “It takes two to tango”. You can choose to
join the dance that your ex is trying to pull you into, or you can use this as an opportunity to start
moving to your own tune and moving to your own dance.
It does not have to be a bad divorce if you do not want it to be. You can choose.
While you do not have control over what the other person says or does, you do not have control
over how you act and how you respond. You can thoughtfully choose how you to respond to the
actions of your ex. You do not have to get down and dirty in the muck. They may be wanting to
drag you down to the dirty pig pen, but you do not have to go.
Separation can be very painful but you do not then both have to go out of your way to make it even
more painful for the person that you once loved and may still have some feelings for.
Have you wondered whether there is a better way? A way where you can come out of the
separation process and not feel regretful or remorseful over your actions or angry and upset about
how the other person is treating you or treated you?
If would like some assistance during the divorce process, contact Claire Naidu of Claire Naidu & Co,
Lawyers and Mediators. Claire is an accredited family law specialist, a mediator, and divorce coach.
Contact Claire Naidu & Co for more information. Click here for our contact details.