Peace within is about our experience of peace, irrespective of what is going on around us. We have capacity to develop and foster our own peace within. Here are 5 tips to foster greater peace within: Tip 1: Awareness to how you feel Bring awareness to the moment by just stopping for moment to notice how you are feeling. Not … Read More
To Separate or not? Honour yourself
Different relationships have different issues and sometimes those issues change from time to time. Some issues are resolvable and some pass a boundary that it is a struggle to move on from. One such issue could be infidelity. Glennon Doyle, New York times best selling author, accepts that there are some people who find safety and lasting forgiveness inside … Read More
Family Law News: Appointments to the Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court of Australia
Appointment to the Family Court of Australia Judge Thomas Altobelli has been appointed as a judge of the Family Court of Australia and will commence in the Sydney Registry on 23 November 2020.The appointment of Judge Altobelli elevates him from his current position as a judge of the Federal Circuit Court of Australia.Judge Altobelli joined the bench in 2006, where he … Read More
Marriage and Your Will
Getting married? Recently married? If you are getting married or have recently married, it is an ideal time to update your Will or create a Will if you have not prepared one before. Having a Will means that your loved ones know what your wishes are and what you want done with your assets and possessions including if you want … Read More
Would you buy a house without a lawyer?
When buying and selling property, most people would hardly ever do this without a lawyer. So what about if you are transferring, buying or selling property as part of a property settlement with your spouse, should you do this without a lawyer? Even if you are separating amicably and have agreement, it can be important to make sure that … Read More
Making a Will – Being Prepared for Change
“Change is the only constant in life” I made a will about 12 months ago. I thought it was good to go for about more than five years, but there has been changes that have happened in the last 12 months that have influenced what I would like to happen if I were to pass away (morbid sounding, I know). … Read More
Provocation or Resolution?
When people attend mediation, they sometimes see it as another opportunity to prove their points, to win, and to convince the other person of their points of view. Mediation is not so much about focusing on the past and who was right or wrong. Sometimes people can never agree about the past. History books written over the years can hold … Read More
Freedom in Resolution
Being in conflict can be tiring and exhausting. Remaining in conflict does not have to be a way of life. You can settle disputes, deal with conflict when it arises, and move on. There is much freedom in the resolution of disputes. Claire Naidu & Co offer resolution services including various forms of alternative dispute resolutions such as collaborative practice, … Read More
We’re Hiring!
Personal Assistant Claire Naidu & Co are seeking a personal assistant for a short-term contract role commencing 16 October 2020 and finishing on 11 December 2020. The hours for the role are 10.00am until 2.00pm on Tuesdays and Fridays. Applications are open until 2 October 2020. Details on how to apply are included further below. About the Role We are looking … Read More
Relationship challenges can be gifts
Any conflict can be challenging, whether that be conflict in the workplace, conflict with family or with friends. There are opportunities that come with all challenges, although it can be hard to see it when you are going through it. There is often a re-balancing of priorities and a new centre that is found within. This week’s quote is from Oprah … Read More
I am what I choose to become
We work with people who have found themselves in situations that they may wish to not have been in. What has happened to them is important, but what they become is more important. We can choose how we respond to our circumstances. We can choose what we do and what we become. We share another beautiful quote from Nelson Mandela. … Read More
Relationship Harmony
Not all relationships progress in the same way or at the same rate. They may be different from the relationships that have been modelled to you or your relationships may be different with different people. It is okay to be different, difference can create harmony. Harmony can be created when we learn how to work together with the differences and … Read More
Feeling Stuck in a difficult situation?
Feeling stuck in a difficult situation can feel very frustrating or even debilitating. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to just, “chop wood”. Just do something, even if it feels mundane, for example, clean a window sill, sweep the floors. There is a zen quote “Before Enlightenment chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment chop wood, carry water”. To the … Read More
ADR in a post Covid-19 Landscape
“A Not So Arbitrary Solution: ADR in a Post COVID-19 Landscape“ This article by Claire Naidu & Debra Parker was in the Law Society of the ACT Journal, Winter 2020 Edition. This article is about dispute resolution including mediation during covid-19 and post covid-19 world.
Superannuation, Super Splitting and Family Law Matters
After separation, when separated couples consider a property settlement, superannuation can be one of the biggest assets that they have. There is no requirement that superannuation be subject to a property settlement by way of adjustment, however you may be considering adjusting yours or your former partner’s superannuation – this is known as a ‘superannuation split’ or ‘splitting orders’. Superannuation … Read More
Checking and updating Your Will following changes in relationships
Checking your Will If you have had recent changes in your family relationships, for example you have separated, divorced or you have had a child, the last thing on your mind may be checking your Will. Through all of the distress and confusion you may not be considering what happens with your estate if you were to pass away, but … Read More
Same Sex Marriage and your Will
Same Sex Marriage and your Will With the changes to same sex marriage laws in Australia, your family relationships may have changed, for example you may have recently married in Australia or an international marriage may now be legally recognised in Australia. For couples in the ACT with a current Will, it is important to review and have updated as … Read More
New Family Law Court Fees – Effective from 1 July 2020
Family law fees Pursuant to section 2.13 of the Family Law (Fees) Regulation 2012, from 1 July 2020 the fee prescribed for each item of Schedule 1 to those Regulations will be the amount listed below. Item Document or service Family law fees 1 Filing an application in proceedings for a divorce order in relation to a marriage or a decree of … Read More
What is a Consent Order?
“Consent Orders may be made by a court where there is agreement by parties for orders to be made. There are usually certain requirements that need to be met before a court will issue consent orders.” A consent order or “consent orders” may have different meanings depending on the jurisdiction and the Court and type of proceedings. Consent orders in … Read More
Divorce property settlement without going to Court
When people separate, there are a range of different experiences that they can have. Not all separations have to be the long drawn out court battles that last for years and cost hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees. “There are options that can help you to avoid going to Court.” – Claire Naidu As you can anticipate, going … Read More
Specialist Family Court Covid-19 List for urgent parenting matters
The Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court of Australia (the Courts) have announced that they are establishing a court list dedicated to deal exclusively with urgent parenting-related disputes that have arisen due to the COVID-19 pandemic. They have avised that the list will commence on 29 April 2020. The introduction of this list is in response to … Read More
Finalise your Divorce, Move on with your life
DIVORCE IS NOT FAILURE Finalise your Divorce, Move on with your life “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot…and missed. I’ve failed over, and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordan. Finalise your Divorce, … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Conflict Coaching for Covid-19 related matters
CONFLICT COACHING – FAMILY LAW CONFLICT COACHING FOR PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS AND PROPERTY MATTERS AFFECTED BY COVID19 “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – COVID-19 FAMILY LAW … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Express Mediations for Covid-19 related matters
EXPRESS MEDIATION – FAMILY LAW MEDIATION FOR PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS AND PROPERTY MATTERS AFFECTED BY COVID19 “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – COVID-19 FAMILY LAW EXPRESS … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Initial Appointments and Family Law Advice
INITIAL APPOINTMENTS AND SPECIALIST FAMILY LAW ADVICE REGARDING COVID-19 PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS AND PROPERTY MATTERS “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – COVID-19 FAMILY LAW ADVICE The … Read More
Covid-19 Family Matters: Wills and Power of Attorneys
LEGAL MATTERS DURING COVID-19 – WILLS AND POWERS OF ATTORNEY “With the Covid-19 pandemic, now is a good time to consider reviewing your old will. If you do not have a will, it is a good time to consider preparing a Will to ensure that your wishes are reflected and loved ones taken care of.” – Claire Naidu & Co … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Family Violence and Domestic violence
FAMILY LAW COVID-19 FAMILY VIOLENCE AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MATTERS “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – FAMILY VIOLENCE AND COVID-19 Are you concerned for yourself or … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Parenting information
FAMILY LAW COVID-19 PARENTING INFORMATION “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – COVID-19 PARENTING FACT SHEET You may be worried or confused about what COVID-19 means … Read More
Covid-19 Family Law Matters: Parenting Arrangements during the Pandemic
PARENTING ARRANGEMENTS IN THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC “The Covid-19 pandemic is bringing unprecedented changes to the family law landscape. Many parents are worried and confused about what COVID-19 means for them, and how it will affect their children and parenting arrangements. “ – Claire Naidu & Co – During the COVID-19 pandemic you may be considering what impacts there might be … Read More
Coparenting in the covid-19 pandemic – Tools for dealing with strong emotions
If you are parent who is co-parenting your children with the other parent and you are residing in different household, you may be feeling an increase in the range of different emotions while dealing with your ex-peratner during the covid-19 pandemic. Some of those emotions might be more heightened than usual – for example feelings of greater uncertainty, feeling less … Read More
Covid-19 Update #2
We remain open. However, our office arrangements are currently varied. In line with the government lockdown response to the Covid-19 Pandemic, we advise that our physical offices at 66A Phyllis Ashton Circuit will be temporarily closed (we remain open remotely). Further updates will be provided. What does this mean? Our staff will work remotely where possible and we continue to service … Read More
|Covid-19 Update
Clients with any symptoms of a cold or flu, (even mild symptoms) are respectfully requested to not come into the office but rather contact us prior to the appointment to discuss options including a telephone or video appointment instead of a face to face appointment or to reschedule the appointment . Please call 02 6109 0118 to discuss your situation … Read More
Megxit & Hexit (and Brexit)
Megxit & Hexit (and Brexit) There are all forms of relationships, new relationship, establishing relationships, established relationships and relationships that are on their way out – exiting relationships. There are changes and exiting of relationships at the country-based level. Colonies have been declaring independence for years. For example, Cameroon from being a former German colony, Madagascar from being a French … Read More
Summer Solstice: An interesting Legal Tradition
“Solstice” is from the Latin word solstitium, which translates to “sun stands still.” According to the astronomical definition of the seasons, summer solstice marks the beginning of summer. In the Southern Hemisphere, summer solstice falls today, 22 December 2019, and it is the day with the longest amount of sunlight.Summer solstice has an interesting legal tradition. The Vikings are thought … Read More
Recent Full Court Family Court of Australia Appeals
Some of the recent decisions of the Full Court of the Family Court of Australia are as follows (for more details, click on the links): Cabadas & Cabadas [2019] FamCAFC 17911 Oct 2019FAMILY LAW – APPEAL – PROPERTY SETTLEMENT – Where the husband appeals from final property orders – Where the trial judge found the date of separation to be … Read More
The Rights of a Child in Family Law Matters
State parties (ie countries) that have signed the Convention on the Rights of the Child have committed to ensuring and respecting the rights of each child no matter their background or the background of their parent’s. The rights of children apply to all children and apply without discrimination of any kind, irrespective of their face, colour, sex, language, religion, political … Read More
Parenting Matters
Parenting matters, in a family law context, are matters involving a child or children. There are a range of different family law matters and not all family law matters involve parenting matters. Parenting matters arise when parties separate and they have children together (including all children whether biological and non-biological children). A child is considered to be a human being … Read More
Best Interests of a Child
The Best Interests of a Child – Matters involving children from separated or separating parents The “Best interests of a child” is term used all over the world and is considered to be the paramount consideration in matters involving children. You may have heard of the principle being referred to as the paramount consideration or primary consideration. In all actions … Read More
How to settle a Family Law Matter
Want to settle your family law matter? Looking to obtain a property settlement or custody arrangements? There are many options available to assist in resolving a family law matter. These options include: “Kitchen table” discussions – where you and your former partner discuss options for settlement together; Four-way or round-table discussions – where you and your former partner discussions options … Read More
Mediation Canberra
– Family Law Mediation in Canberra, ACT and Australia Claire Naidu & Co offers Mediation services for the Canberra, Queanbeyan and ACT region from our offices in Gungahlin. We also service clients interstate and can assist clients from NSW, Victoria and across Australia and Internationally. If you would like to talk to some and discuss mediation whether that be mediation … Read More