When people attend mediation, they sometimes see it as another opportunity to prove their points, to win, and to convince the other person of their points of view. Mediation is not so much about focusing on the past and who was right or wrong. Sometimes people can never agree about the past. History books written over the years can hold different perspectives depending on the author. The same is with interpersonal and familial conflict.
Conflict resolution processes, such as mediation, can assist people in looking forward towards options and resolution, rather than focusing on the path and beliefs that are the experience of everyone involved.
Today’s quote is from an Indonesian author, Toba Beta. The quote is “Provocation is on the opposite lane of resolution.”
Which lane do you want to be in?
If you are wanting to head in the direction and the lane of resolution, Claire Naidu & Co, Family Mediators & Family Law Specialist has conflict resolution specialists and offer services including mediation, conflict coaching, settlement agreements and legal advice.
Claire Naidu & Co work with clients seeking to resolve conflict and create better lives. If you want to work with us, see the link to our contact details below.
#familyresolution #conflictresolution #clairenaiduandco #disputeresolution